long term relationship

I think having this relationship has taught me a lot of lessons.

Blink of an eye, and 2 years have passed…

It really does not feel that long! I think it’s really pleasant when 2 years doesn’t feel. Which means that you’ve grown to become comfortable and used to his presence, and you feel good about the relationship because it’s positive enough to make it seem not-draggy.

Wa, long sentence.. o_o

Anyway, IMPORTANT LESSON I’ve learnt recently:

Note to self: You should probably ignore James when you guys have had a quarrel, because when he’s angry he’s a total asshole who doesn’t know what hes saying and would probably regret it later.

So, just ignore him until he behaves normally!

And everything will be fine. =D

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Some valuable lessons this relationship has taught me which will go a long way:

1) Men are vulnerable to sexual temptations, usually more than women,
so if they make a mistake, search deep within your heart to forgive.

I used to have this thinking that if a guy ever lied to me / cheated on me, I’d definitely leave him for good and stuff..

But, well, I’ve come to realize that nobody’s perfect. And part of loving means forgiving and accepting.

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2) Sometimes, men are not too good with words and usually have no idea what women are thinking,

so don’t expect them to always understand women’s reverse psychology.

I’m one of those girls who like to be petty and say “GO AWAY” but the truth is, I REALLY WANT YOU TO COME PACIFY ME!

Most girls are like that, anyway. When a guy gets angry, you should leave him alone for some time to let him cool down. He’ll contact you when he feels better.

When a girl gets angry, you should leave her alone to cool down for AWHILE and after you think she feels better, you’d better go make her happy and not leave her alone for too long or else she’d think that YOU DON’T CARE.

Yup. Actually women are not that hard to understand.

Guys just have to put more thoughts into things.

LISTEN WITH YOUR HEART, NOT ONLY YOUR EARS!


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3) Say what you mean and mean what you say. And THINK before you say.

If you don’t mean to break up, don’t say you want to because guys usually take the first “I want to break up” sentence seriously but if you say it too often yet still stick by him, he’d probably take you for granted.


Everytime I quarrel with James, I try to reflect on my own actions and it actually helps alot to prevent future quarrels.

Know your own mistakes!!!!! It’s really frustrating to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t know all their wrong doings.

Guys have super huge egos, so don’t call him things like “CHEAPSKATE” or whatever even if you’re just kidding.

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Ok I wanted to type a really long post but I’m kinda lazy right now. Damn tired pls!!

And I GOT A MINI PERFORMANCE TOMORROW!!!!

I can’t remember exactly when was the last time I took the stage for a performance. I think in Primary School, when I was still in Choir!

Anyway, tomorrow me and Mr.Raymond Yeo will be singing a duet of “Can’t Take My Eyes Off You” at Punggol Park after the Cross Country,

So look our for us and cheer if you are from my school!!! =D

Ok anyway here are some pics.

I’m way too tired to create a very wordy post.

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On the night of our anniversary, he disappeared for a few hours and told me that he was off to “do something”…

I waited and waited for a few hours, and then he suddenly popped out of nowhere just as our anniversary was ending and hugged me and kissed me, then told me to look out of my window!

And I saw…

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HEHEHE!

Something glowing in the dark!

I saw colourful words of “JAMES LOVE YOU, *heart* JESS”

Hahaaha he’s damn cute la, instead of “I LOVE YOU” he put “JAMES LOVE YOU” as though Jess and You = different people. “James love you” is kinda third-person ish. LOL.

I couldn’t capture the words properly because it was very dark already.

The man himself and his erm.. masterpiece :D

I wont tell you what he “wrote” the lightstick-words on.. LOL~ It’s something very cute, only me and him would know!

Anyway, I super duper appreciate his efforts!

It is simple yet so super sweet.

I know he’s not the kinda guy who would do such things for his girlfriend. He only brought his ex to a nice dinner for their 2 years anniversary!

But for our 2 years, he actually bothered to do this and bring me on a romantic beach holiday and accompany me to Avril Lavigne’s concert.

I feel so pampered ;____________;

All his wrong doings are currently forgiven, wahahaha.

I’m a happy girl :)

Anyway, we would be going to Pulau Besar on the 3rd because I would be having my September holidays then! Yipeeee.


I cannot wait to go Jet Skiing and frolicking around on their supposedly gorgeous clean and clear beach!

I wanna go snorkelling! OMG. So many things I wanna do. I know it’s gonna be perfect.

So exciteddddddd. Fishy fishy! I have been waiting to go snorkelling / scuba diving all my life.

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HAHAHA this is so fucking cute.

It was supposed to be a normal shot, but we had so much telepathy we just did the cross-eyed silly face together!

Imagine our laughter when we looked at the camera after that. I wanted to see his annoyed reaction to my stupid face, but then I saw HIS stupid face… HAHAHA.

Turned out we have more in common than I thought =P

Till then~!!!

xoxo,
Jess

xoxo,
Jess

This is for you, baby boy.



Sometimes you make me HAPPY…

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Sometimes you make me MAD!

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Sometimes you make me LAUGH,

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…And at times, you even make me sad.

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Nevertheless,


I love all the damn silly and wild things we get up to..

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There’s no one else who can make me quite as crazy as you do.

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Pledged to love and sealed with a kiss

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I will always be by your side,

I promise you this.

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You
lifted me up whenever I was down..

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My world is more beautiful when you are around.

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Your twinkling eyes and warm smile brighten up my life

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I know everything will be alright…

Cuz I’ve got my lover right by my side!

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I’ll be there to catch you whenever you fall

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I will be the one who stands by you,

through it all .

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Today (26-08-08) marks the

2nd year anniversary,


since our love for each other begun.

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I’ll never forget those lovely memories, oh I had so much fun.

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Even though some times we got our knees scraped and hearts broken…

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When I look into your eyes, I can still feel the love and words unspoken
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So thank you for everything,

…..but 2 years with you still just ain’t enough for me

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I’ll make this very clear so that everyone can see,

just how dear you really are to me

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I LOVE YOU, JAMES OOI WEI XIONG!!!

So dangerously, helplessly, madly and… surely in love with you.

From 26-08-06 till eternity.

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I look forward to more of our journey of love together, and I can tell it’s gonna be one helluva ride ahead.

xoxo,

Your baby girl

xoxo,
Jess

kallang roar

I was working at an event for Kallang Roar – the movie.

The roadshow was going on opposite Cineleisure, at some Youth Park..

I honestly thought it was a weird location since people usually don’t go there? Except for those bikers?

Me and my “partner” for the day!

Check out our awesome old school soccer jerseys.

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JESSICA?


IN A SOCCER JERSEY !!?!?!?!?

HAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The first AND last time you’d ever see me in this.

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Anyway they had several live bands performing..

Most of the local bands I’ve heard = crap. Honestly. Either the singer is crap, or the music is crap, but I really liked two of the bands which performed yesterday, unfortunately forgotten their names :(

One group was DAMN FUNNY.

The bands were all malay guys, and one of them was on stage talking about how the youth park is an important place to him and his band because this was the place where they auditioned for SUPER BAND..

And he was like “It was here that all those chinese people went, “Eh!! Ma lai ren lei!!” …

and after we started singing they freaked out even more and went like,

“EH MA LAI REN HUI CHANG HUA YU GE LEI~~~~~~”

HAHAHA I was laughing really loud when he said that. Imagine a malay guy being amused by all these chinese who were amazed that they could speak chinese!

Anyway, after that they started singing KISS GOODBYE. WTFFFFFFFFFF it was so nice, I didn’t bring my camera if not I would have recorded for you guys.

There’s just something endearing about malays singing chinese songs, no?

The way they try so hard to pronounce the word correctly! Malays sound cute trying to speak chinese but I think chinese people sound stupid trying to speak the Malay language. LOL.


They had soccer matches.. from the cast of the movie Kallang Roar. MILO versus CANON. (two sponsors)

LOL. It was totally entertaining~


They also had bike stunts performances! Very entertaining =)

Wa, seems like my vocabulary very limited today, I keep using words like “very entertaining” to describe like everything.

Kudos to those bikers for their guts and skills.

And of course, my super duper adorable host!

Guess who??

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I LOVE YOU RANDALL!!!! (in a I love Edison Chen too way)

I know the darn picture looks distorted. It was a printed photo and used my digi cam to take a picture of it, obviously I took it from a lame angle…

I remember I used to be completely obsessed with Randall, I cut his photos from magazines and pasted them on my wall!

He’s veryyyy friendly and nice and of course, irresistably adorable.

Happy day for Jessica!

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My my, who has such giant feet?

It was raining heavily the ENTIRE day!!!

But the crew was still cheerful. The bands continued to play in the rain and fans watched with umbrella over their heads.

Due to the rain, I did completely NO work the entire day =X

Officially the most SLACK job ever! I was sitting around in the tent waiting for the heavy rain to stop with the others. It didn’t stop and basically flooded us all, LOL.

My shoes were soaked, ewww :(

Thanks to the rain, I could sit around admiring gorgeous Randall, listening to live bands play good music, talk to girl friends / working buddies and do no work at all but still get paid. Shiok~


Oh yea, if it wasnt for the rain, I would have had to play SOCCER!!!!

WTF. Friendly match against other girls. SIAO. ALL MY LIFE I have NEVER played soccer..

It’s funny enough I’m in some old school jersey, and it would be the funniest thing to see me running after a ball on dirt and grass.


Of course, besides being entertained by bike stunts, bands, Randall, girlfriends and stuff, I couldn’t hide from the fact that I was stuck inside a flooded tent with basically nothing to do.

Anyway after the event ended, mummy came to pick me up and we went to have family dinner!

Jessica is a very happy girl :)

Although there are some events in my life recently that made me feel super fucked up, deep down inside I know that my life is heading in the right direction and my future is bright.

So staying positive is my key!

And of course, I wanna get a DECENT grade for O levels. Tomorrow I’m going to take my Chinese O’s retake prelims! $%*@%*@)%

Tomorrow is also me and James’ 2 year anniversary lo… Hohoho :]

Right now, he’s at Peninsula Plaza (how to spell the place name ah?) and hes calling me from the travel agency, asking me where I wanna go!

We have been quarrelling for the past few days and we got so pissed off that I told him I didn’t want to see him on our anniversary and that I didn’t want to go anywhere anymore.

He said ok, he won’t bother to bring me anymore..

We’ve been having cold war. Very very cold and mean indeed :(

But he suddenly called me to tell me hes at the travel agency already!!! OMG.

I super love you, James!

Anyway when I got home.. I happily opened the stuff that I brought back:


Besides my pay for the event, they gave me some spa and clothes vouchers and omg, A CANON PHOTO PRINTER!!! (canon’s one of their sponsors, you see)

WAHAHA I AM GOD DAMN HAPPY.

I am super obsessed with photos, so now I can print them all anytime I like. Free too! *skips around*

I will have many many photo albums from now on! Memories will never be lost again :D

I’ve wanted a printer for a long time, and I’ve also wanted a damn microphone for a long time!!

Finally bought a mic so I can talk to people on my msn!!!!

I super miss my overseas friends and I can just talk to them like that, OMG DAMN FUN AND GOOD. No more stupid expensive overseas phone calls.

I have a webcam now too! Yipeeee fun.

Alright James just confirmed with me that we’re going Pulau Besar.


CAN’T WAIT YO!

Byebye.

xoxo,
Jess
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